I’ve a feeling 2025 will be one for attending protest marches. It seems likely that anyone drooling over Donald’s actions the world over will be as happy to throw disabled people under a bus as they are BIPOC. As willing to attack the rights of cis women as they are trans women, or to lash out against poor people are they are every queer identity.
As an Australian I’m privileged enough to feel safe marching the streets as a nonbinary person, but it would be unwise of me to jump on a train and start marching. As a chronically ill person with autism and ADHD, attending a protest march without too much pain, fatigue and discomfort, or overwhelmed by the sensory onslaught that is crowds, requires careful consideration. This guide to protests unpacks the factors I consider to prepare myself for a march. I hope it makes your own/ people accompanying you’s attendance at protests (and busy public places in general) more comfortable too.
Minimising Anxiety: Foreknowledge
Even if your companion knows the details, and you’re not normally prone to anxiety; a protest is a good event to minimise anything that might cause anxiety at, especially if you’re neurodiverse. Before you get there, I suggest checking where the protest is, who organised it, what format it takes etc. Do what helps calm us autistic people and arm yourself with foreknowledge of who will be where, doing what, when and how.
If its a type you haven’t been to before (or your first protest); ask around. Get other people to tell you about their experiences to help you know what to expect. A few times in unfamiliar contexts or places recently, I’ve found myself rehearsing what I know will happen, or steps I will take. This has helped me to regulate, remain calm and feel in control in an unfamiliar situation.
Company & ADHD Support To Arrive
A lot of how I’d stay calm, not stressed and not overwhelmed by the crowds comes down to this; try not to attend events alone. The presence of at least one person I know helps me with lots of things.
For a start, I might have trouble reaching the protest. I may be feeling nervous. And with my ADHD tendency towards distractibility, especially if I forgot my meds that morning, its easy to miss my train stop. Its also easy to get streets mixed up, turn to soon or read my map wrong (yes with phone navigation).
Travelling with another person who takes responsibility for navigating takes pressure off me. That alone helps reduce my stress and anxiety levels, and gives me a calmer arrival to the protest.
Company & Preventing Accidents (due to sensory overload)
When you reach the protest, people and signs everywhere and maybe helicopters in the sky, its easy to get distracted or overloaded with sensory information. At Invasion Day I was so distracted (or overloaded) with processing visual sensory info of the crowd that I nearly tripped over concrete bordering tram tracks, having not perceived/ processed it.
Crowds are an information processing challenge for people with autism and or ADHD. So its a good idea to ask your companion(s) to keep an eye out for trip hazards, help you spot them and to explain that you’re likely to overlook them. Its also a good idea to watch out for the crowd parting around obstacles ahead. Had people not stood on benches we had to walk around at Invasion Day, its possible I would have bumped into them too.
Comfort & Sensory Needs
I was lucky my friend was aware I’m nervous as an immunocompromised person of being hundreds or thousands people who could have a respiratory virus that could put me in bed for weeks. This made her aware of my need for personal space and prompted her to find it. And personal space reduced my feelings of being overwhelmed or stressed by people pressing in around me on all sides.
Stand/ Sit Near A Wall
The best space for a neurodiverse or chronically ill person is near a wall. No one can stand in the wall, so you’re guaranteed space on that side. And people don’t tend to pack closely together before the wall. And if the wall is by your side; half the crowd is behind you and you can’t see them. This gives you less likelihood of catching anything from anyone (like the N95 I assume fellow spoonies are wearing). And it reduces the sensory input and distraction of the crowd for autistic people and ADHDers.
But the most important thing about walls for anyone prone to fatigue or pain from prolonged standing is physical support. The Invasion Day rally began with two hours of speeches. I barely managed to stand through the first ten minutes (and I wanted to, because Uncle Garry Folely was speaking and I wanted to show him that respect). I could only stand that long because I was leaning my back fully against the wall and it was relieving my legs of half my weight.
When standing became too much; I sat with my back leaning against the wall. I had space to sit comfortably there and to change my position as needed. You couldn’t do that in the middle of the crowd in the middle of the street.
Company, Sensory Overload & Autism Support
Both my parents are autistic and dislike crowds. I think its the novelty and variety of people that my ADHD enjoys about them. My autism doesn’t mind them, but even after a family Christmas I’m TIRED, happy to sit alone and barely speak to anyone for hours. Attending a protest march with hundreds (especially thousands) of people gives me the same weariness. I think its the exhaustion of so many people, clothes, colours, faces, me noticing ALL of it and the energy that takes to process.
Crowds are massively overstimulating and being in one can feel overwhelming. Again, this is where being with at least one person can help. If I’m overwhelmed by all the people, I can focus on the person who’s my company. I even found talking to that friend during the latest march made it feel like it was just us walking down the street. It made me feel MUCH MORE comfortable.
Focusing on the back of the person in front of me or the sign they were carrying, instead of the entire crowded street ahead, also helped me feel less overwhelmed.
Anxiety/ Regulation Aids
As teachers, we know the power of a fidget to give that ADHD kid the stimulation/ dopamine hit they need to focus. We also know the calming benefit of regular, rhythmic movements for heightened and autistic children. Guess what? What helps children calm and self regulate can help adults too.
I didn’t bring fidgets to the Invasion Day speeches, but I was tapping my fingers on my knee to a regular rhythm. Holding a small, discrete fidget could have fulfilled my restless ADHD need to move, even while sitting listening for an hour and fifty minutes. Were I feeling anxious/ overwhelmed by the crowd; again a fidget involving repetitive, rhythmic movement could help calm me.
Mobility Aids
If you’re physically disabled and or hyper mobile, you may already have mobility aids. As a chronically ill person who recovered from long covid only to realise I still had fibromyalgia; I stumbled through chronic pain and fatigue. At work I mostly sat down as often as possible. At home I alternated being on my feet and moving with sitting and resting. But at a protest march its likely you’ll be on your feet for quite some time. So I bought a walking stick, which I’m most likely to use at protest marches (for now).
The Invasion Day march crowd moved too slowly for me. Sometimes my friend and I could step off the road onto the footpath and move at our own pace. But sometimes we couldn’t and like prolonged standing, prolonged slow walking is bad for my fatigue and back ache. For the last fifteen minutes, having a walking stick to lean on would have helped minimise my fatigue and back ache.
Final Note
As we’re conscious of in teaching, its hard too care for others if you are struggling. So try and ensure your comfort as best you can at protests (and in crowded spaces generally), so you can focus your energy on resisting whatever shit your country is/ is at risk of getting badly wrong.
Further Reading
Disability; Doctors, Diagnosis & Community
Neurodivergent Self Diagnosis; ADHD? Autistic?
Oh, I’m Also Actually Autistic!
Succinct summary of challenges neurodiverse people face and a few tools (down the bottom) to help us manage them from Change Mental Health (in Scotland).
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